Mesothelioma diagnosis cannot be changed. Often it is simpler to learn about your illness as much as you can and be your own advocate. Discussion with your doctor about your situation is the best start. You may also do some internet and manual research. You may check out the National Cancer Institute at www.cancer.gov or 1-800-4-CANCER, or the American Cancer Society at www.cancer.org or 1-800-227-2345.

It is important to remain updated with the recent treatment options available because cancer treatment changes regularly. By being well-informed about your case, you can make decisions about your treatment regimen rather than someone else deciding for you. The following resources can be employed to be proactive in your medical attention, thus regaining control of your life.

1. Your doctor – Let your physician explain to you about malignant mesothelioma. If he is not a specialist, ask for a referral to someone who is. Ask about the stage of your disease and the cell type. This data can help you make treatment decisions.

2. Ask questions – Take a list of your concerns every time you come in for an appointment with your medical team. Do not hesitate to have your questions answered; all your issues are important.

3. Bring someone – During your appointments, take a family member or a friend along to lend not only support but an extra pair of ears too.

4. Take notes – The doctor's discussions about treatment options and the prescribed medications are important, as well as the pros and cons of each, including other factors such as risks, side effects, possible reactions and life quality. You may also ask some written materials about mesothelioma from your physician.

5. Record important information – Ask your doctor's permission to record information in real time to make it easier to relay information to loved ones who weren't able to make it with you to an appointment.